In the typical Indian mind, the word ‘Wedding’ is followed by tradition, culture, unification, happiness and exuberance. ‘The Big Fat Indian Wedding’ demands mammoth preparations and some corporate-styled planning with multiple contingency plans for every stage of the event. If you’ve ever been an integral part of an Indian wedding, in any part of the country, you know what we’re talking about. All through the journey of an Indian wedding is the constant feeling of STRESS. After sending the bride and groom off on a sugary, lovey-dovey honeymoon most of their relatives and friends pack up the scene and then proceed to rest for days, dwelling on the sweet memories of the wedding. But that stress takes a toll on everyone including the bride and the groom.

We here at hamaraEvent.com believe that too much stress is bad for all and one. In most Western countries, spa weddings are a regular thing. But in India, these kinds of weddings aren’t really heard of and neither are they in the mainstream flow of wedding ideas. So in this article, we present to you an out-of-the-box way to get married, where none of the above stress is involved. Tying the knot in a spa would be a very soulful and Zen experience. This kind of wedding is suitable for a low-key affair, of around 20-30 people. You enjoy, relax and start an inward journey of self-exploration with your partner, all at the same time. A day spent being happy, relaxed and positive, would result in a meaningful, stress-free and comfortable marriage ceremony. Read on to know more.

A spa, for most of us, would mean a place with a tub full of hot scented water meant for relaxing. Today, malls, multiplexes, gyms and literally every other commercial space have a spa. All of them offer more or less the same facility under the title of spas. Now you might be thinking, how can you possibly have a wedding inside a spa which is inside a body care shop which is housed in a mall?

Hold on, hold on. As the hospitality sector has gained importance and expanded tremendously, the definition of ‘spas’ has changed drastically. Spas today mean a tonne of things, from bare bone day spas with mud baths to a week-long wellness experience. Spas are no longer micro-vacations for super stressed corporate drones like the most of us. Today it means a place where we can treat ourselves to full body massages, body scrubs, (much needed) meditation and facials, either in a day or overnight setting.

Here’s the thing with this idea. There’s no fixed way to enjoy a spa. You decide for yourself and make a suitable routine and then find a spa that has all that you want. Or you can simply check out the best spas and take their offer packages. The whole idea is to have fun. The activities should be professionally offered and should be aimed at renewal of the mind, body and spirit.

Choosing the type of spa is very important for a successful wedding. For starters, search for a place which has activities like cycling, spinning, swimming, trekking etc. Basically, activities that involve a group. This helps the family of the to-be in-laws bond with each other. It also kind of sets the ground for future activities where you have fun and end up doing something productive. Since, spas also have services like pedicure, manicure, hairdressing, steam bath, hot water Jacuzzis etc., all the members of either family would be looking naturally beautiful and handsome at the end of the day. Unlike the other way round, which is what usually happens.

Here are the different types of spas which include:

1) Day Spa: 80% spas are of this type. These in and out spas are your run-of-the-mill spas where they provide basic amenities where you can get your hair and nails done. These shouldn’t be confused with salons, although there is usually a different wing for it. Some big day spas provide robes and slippers with bathroom slippers to chill in. They also have massage therapists and aestheticians. These destinations also usually have a tranquillity room where you can meditate or read and they offer lemon water, black tea or dry fruits as small treats. These are really effective for a close-knit affair and light on the pockets.

2) Destination Spa: Although these types of spas aren’t too many in number, they are sure to give you and others a complete and immersive experience. Usually, you’d want to go to such spas if you’re planning to stay for at least two nights. The costs cover lodging, boarding and food. These destinations are mostly in a hill station, away from the hustle of the city. They provide special activities like trekking. Destination spas would certainly hope those searching for the higher meaning in life.

3) Resort and Hotel Spas: This is what most people opt for when looking for an off-beat place for marriage. These are basically commercial hotels with valets, room service, and televisions but paired with the healthy regime of a spa. Usually, the spa and its activities are billed separately. So here you can have the classic wellness options of a spa along with a 12-inch steak and a plate of curly fries to wash it down with a bottle of wine. Here guests have best of both the world. Such places often can accommodate more people in number and bookings in these hotel spas sell like hot cakes during wedding season.

       If you’ve liked the idea so far, there’s more. Instruct your guests and family members on how to enjoy their day. Arrive at the spa around 15 minutes before your appointment for a detailed tour of the facility. Enjoy the massages, therapies and all other treatments without a care in the world. Interact with other members of the family which would help you know them.

Most of the resort and hotel spas have accommodation for a wedding. The open space they might have would double up as a wedding lawn. Catering in such places is usually available or they might help you arrange for it. All in all, if you like this idea and pull it off successfully, this would remain as one of the most memorable weddings in the memory of your near and dear ones.

    If you like this idea let us know and share this with your fiancé or someone who might get married in the near future.